Setting Up The Date & Closing The Deal

So you got her to answer back thanks to our advice? The hard part is over…or not? If you have cinched in a meet and greet, or meet and you know what, how do you take it from email to action? There are specific ways to take your conversation to the next level, and ways to spoil all the work you did up until this point. If you want to insure that your hard work will pay off by you getting hard and fast sex, don’t blow it at this point by not following through, or closing the deal. Now is the time to finalize the specifics of where to go, dating places, and what to do. You both know the obvious place that the date is going to go, but starting it out is the most important part to make sure it gets where you want it to be. There is some planning involved in this final step to setting up the date and closing the deal.

Where to meet in the UK?

The best place to meet her is in a “safe” place. She isn’t going to want to come to your place, nor are you going to want her to. If you choose a place where she feels that there is some sort of security in the meet she is more likely to meet you. Choose a place to meet face to face that isn’t too much pressure, too quiet, or that isn’t too loud and distracting. A place that is perfect for the first meet is a lounge. The best of all worlds, it will be quiet enough, but not completely secluded. You will both feel like you have an out if you need one, and that there are plenty of people around to provide her that feeling of safety. Since you are not on a date, nor do you want to get to know her up close and personal, meeting after dinner is always a good plan of action. It lets her know that there is no obligation, but that you are still sharing a night with her. Pick a lounge that is convenient for her so she doesn’t feel like she is going out of her way for you.

Your actions are important

Don’t show up half in the bag, or all the way. If you choose to have dinner before and want to “loosen up” that is alright, but keep your wits about you Don’t drink heavily before you meet her and most certainly do not drink at all with her unless she does. If you are going to meet her, don’t get all liquored up waiting for her to arrive. She doesn’t want to meet with a guy who is already ugly and boozed up. A drink or two before is alright, but it is best to save yourself for her and see what her intentions, and feelings about alcohol are, before engaging without her. Being drunk, or drinking while she is there if she isn’t a drinker, will be a sure turn off and a way to lose the entire night.

Finding dating places where to go

Success is in the planning and the details. If you want to make sure that the night will go where you want it to, set it up so it does. Make sure that you have a plan for if, and when, you are both ready to go and find a more quaint place to go. Having an exit plan to get her into your bed is important to make sure things go smoothly and end the way you want them to. Finding a place that is convenient to exit, and close to where you want to exit to, is crucial to getting the happy ending you desire. When it comes time to go, make sure you have a plan about where you are going to go to. If you want to take her to your place make it accessible, if you have somewhere else in mind, make plans ahead of time so it is ready to go. She wants a guy who is in control and has their shit together, so get it together so that things move in the right direction and soon you will be moving inside of her.