There are some things in life that are uncertain and others which are very certain. The one constant that holds true in almost every circumstance is that if something appears to be too good to be true, it almost always is. The biggest pitfall that you can fall into when using the hookup dating websites is fake profiles that are nothing more than escorts in disguise. There are some men who understand the “code” words and are seeking these profiles out, and then others who are completely unaware of what they are being lured into. If you are not interested in a “pay for hire” girl, there are some things that you must always avoid. Red flags that are blowing in the wind are abound and are easier to spot than you think.
What are the red flags to avoid that signal fake profiles?
If she looks like a porn star then chances are she isn’t real. Well, she probably is real, but she probably gets paid well for what she does best. If the girl in the picture is being outwardly sexual, or showing her goods, it is probably her own paid advertising that you are seeing. The girls who are looking to really hookup with you aren’t going to be so overt about what it is they want. They are going to show you who they are, not what they are good at. Stray away from the girls who are presenting you your greatest fantasy. Remember you are supposed to be the one selling the drama, not them. There is a reason why there isn’t a guide for women who want to find a guy to hookup with. The reality is that a woman almost always can find a man to have sex with, not the other way around. If a woman is trying to “sell” herself to you, there is a reason why. If she is selling herself to you, chances are it is because it is a fake profile or one of those UK dating scam profiles that you should run from.
She won’t travel across seas…
If she contacts you and begins talking about “loving Canada and wanting to come visit you”, run and run fast. That is the BIGGEST red flag there is. No girls are going to cross the seas to hookup with a stranger from another place. The truth is that women have to just walk out their door to find sex. Why would they consider taking great lengths for a sexual encounter? Those who talk about traveling, or coming to visit, are no doubt about to unleash an extortion scam on the unwitting acceptor, don’t be that person. Dating in England doesn’t involve exporting women from other regions.
Perfection is in the eye of the beholder…or the strokes of the photoshop?
Profiles that have pictures of women who are absolutely perfect are probably not real. The women who are creating real profiles on hookup dating websites are using real photos from their life experiences, not glamour shots, or those which are touched up. If it is almost humanly impossible to be that perfect, there is a good chance that it is a scam. Women are all perfect in their own way, but the only way to really be perfect, is through the stroke of the mouse in a photo retouch. Be wary of the girls who look like they belong on the cover of a magazine. News flash, the girls on the cover of magazines have been photo-shopped too. They are paid to look that good and so are the ones who retouch their photos for perfection.
She may be eager…but too eager should be a sign
Sure the hookup dating websites are created for women and men who want to have instant, hot and amazing anonymous sex, but if she is too eager, the chance is good she is out for something more, or it is a scam. A woman does not need to get you all revved up, she knows that you can do that all on your own. If she is ready and out the gate before you have even said hello, that is a definite red flag. If your first conversation is filled with forward talking and words designed to get you all excited, it is almost definitely a scam. A woman who is looking for sex with a guy and that is all, is going to have a normal conversation to feel you out first. Her first correspondence isn’t going to sound like, well, an escort. If it does…think about it, she is probably an escort!
Women are setting up their profiles on British dating sites to attract you too…but
Women are doing the same thing you are, trying to attract a person of the opposite sex. If it seems like she is trying too hard, or trying to win out over other profiles, it is probably a scam. Women set up their profiles to find the right guy, not to win the guy from choosing anyone else. If it doesn’t seem right, if something doesn’t add up, or if you feel uncomfortable in your correspondence with her, there is reason to proceed with caution. Many UK escort profiles are easy to spot, but others are more inconspicuous. You may be a little hard up, but don’t be desperate. If you are looking for a real girl…don’t settle for a real escort on British dating sites.